Being diagnosed with a condition that causes chronic pain can put a severe damper or even a hold on your life. You can’t do the things you enjoy, and in some cases, you can’t do the things other people see as simple. It’s not always easy to talk about either. You don’t want to be pitied, but at the same time you don’t want to be dismissed. And truth be told, sometimes you’re just so sick and tired of feeling horrible, that the last thing you want to do is talk about it at all. So even if your friend or loved one isn’t talking to you about it, here are some things you should know.
1. We don’t use it as an excuse:
While it may come to your mind, please realize that if we can’t attend something, and we tell you it’s because of our chronic pain, it’s the truth. We don’t use it to just get out of things. We wanted to go to that birthday party/concert too.
2. The pain is, well… chronic!
Unfortunately, this means we are in pain every day or at least nearly every day. Saying something like "Oh, that still bothers you from four years ago?" is not something we want to hear.
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